How To Make Men Love You - The Method

Believe it or not, girls, you really can make men love you. Like to find out how? Just in case you were in some doubt, you do not ultimately need to "make" men love you; there are many who will love you (yes, even you) as you are already - you may even know some of their names. BUT, if you want to "keep 'em" once you've "got 'em," check out the crafty, eye-opening stuff "The Relationship Doctor," Bob Grant, has to say about the matter:

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When, while "researching" for this article, I asked a couple of ladies I know (on separate occasions) the "how to make men love you" question, they both instinctively pulled up their T shirts without bothering to say anything.

Maybe it's just the sort of people I hang out with.

Well - give nature its due - maybe that is part of the equation, but as an entire strategy something might be left lacking on the romantic side.

OK: first principle is that you have to know what result you intend, and be completely comfortable with pursuing it - it really has to be "you."

So ask yourself: do you really want to "make" men love you? And assuming you do, what kind of love are we talking about here - queues of pining Romeos avalanching you with bouquets, fighting the night away under your balcony so that the only one left alive can play the mandolin to you - badly?

You're the CEO here - you have to know where this is going.

But simmering down a little, if you want to be generally attractive, capable of arousing attention and interest - able to stir up a satisfactory degree of emotional response in men, well, that's generally achievable.

And even if you do know how to make men love you, you don't want to create tedious multiple broken hearts dramas, right? You'll want to show some sensitivity and love in your dealings, otherwise all your newfound allure will become soulless and unfulfilling, won't it?

We would all be fools to forget that however many people may actually love us, we will never even know what that really means if we, ourselves, do not love. 

How To Make Men Love You - The Method

So, ready to proceed? Here's how you do it:

To achieve the desired effect, you don't just drift; you make it your explicit purpose. Start to consider how you want to be and how you want to be seen, about the kind of responses you want to inspire in others. If this is really one of "your things" you'll be designing and "tweaking" the entire intended effect in your mind quite frequently.

"Dream" in this manner, and you will naturally want to know whatever you can do to help produce the result you want. You will be more than willing to make your actions ideally suited to your purposes.

Of course, even if you were the international #1 "how to make men love you" guru, there's just no accounting for taste; the occasional rogue might still prove immune to your charms. Stay focused: you can't win them all - but you can win all you need. The extent and nature of your effect will be down to the clarity of your intent. Commit to "putting it all together" by any non-negative means.

In this focused manner, outwardly, experiment with all the usual factors: make up, dress, hairstyle, diet, exercise, your habits of speech and action, etc. Do not do this in an "artificial" manner - be at one with the changes. You are simply adjusting the form of your self expression.

During these outward experiments, inwardly, hold resolutely to the vision of yourself as you wish to be - this internal image acts as a kind of mold or blueprint which will channel the way you feel, act, and effect other people.

The ancient yogis of India maintained that many qualities and powers could be attained by placing consistent attention upon them in meditation. Perhaps this method owes something to their discoveries!

And that, ladies, is enough; now you know how to make men love you. BUT - if you want to make them go on loving you, don't miss the "Love Doctor," Bob Grant's, clever recommendations, below:

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